When someone experiences domestic abuse, reaching out for legal protection can feel overwhelming. A non mol order (also known as a molestation order) is a crucial step in safeguarding yourself and your children from harmful or threatening behaviour. But while obtaining the order can bring relief, many people are left wondering: what happens next?

At Berkson Family Law Solicitors, we believe that protection doesn’t end when the paperwork is signed. Understanding the full process after a non mol order is granted is essential to feeling secure, informed, and supported. In this article, we’ll guide you through the next steps, from serving the order to enforcement and what to do if it’s breached.

What Is a Non Mol Order?

Before we explain what happens after the order is granted, let’s briefly revisit what a non mol order is. This legal order, issued by the family court under domestic abuse law, protects individuals (and their children) from harassment, threats, and abuse by a current or former partner, family member, or someone they are associated with.

The order may prohibit the abuser from contacting you, coming near your home or workplace, using violence, or making threats. It is legally binding and taken very seriously by the courts and the police.

What Happens Once a Non-Molestation Order Is Granted?

Once the court approves your non mol order, the protective process truly begins. Here are the key steps that follow:

1. The Order Must Be Served on the Respondent

The order is not legally enforceable until it is served to the person it applies to (referred to as the respondent). This means they must be officially notified of the order and understand its terms.

Your solicitor will arrange for a professional process server to deliver the order in person. This is a critical step, until the respondent knows about the order, they cannot be held accountable for breaching it. Process servers are experienced in handling these situations discreetly and safely, often within a very short timeframe.

If the respondent avoids service (e.g. by hiding or moving), your solicitor can apply for alternative methods, such as substituted service, to ensure they are notified legally.

2. The Police Are Notified

Once the non mol order has been served, a copy is also provided to the local police station. This ensures the police are aware that legal protection is in place. If there is a breach, they can act quickly and decisively.

In urgent situations or where there’s an imminent risk of harm, you should always contact the police immediately. Mention that you have a non-molestation order in place and that a breach has occurred, they will have access to the details and can respond accordingly.

3. You Continue to Be Protected by the Order

From the moment the respondent is made aware of the order, they are legally bound by its terms. This includes:

• No direct or indirect contact with you (calls, texts, social media, or third-party messages)

• Staying away from your home or other specified locations

• Refraining from any behaviour that is threatening, harassing, or abusive

If they break any of these conditions, they may be committing a criminal offence.

4. What Happens If the Non Mol Order Is Breached?

Breaching a non mol order is taken very seriously under domestic abuse law. Once served, the respondent is fully aware of the consequences. If they violate the order:

• You should call the police immediately

• The breach may lead to arrest and criminal prosecution

• Depending on the severity, the respondent could face a fine, a community order, or imprisonment

If for any reason the police do not respond promptly or take the breach seriously, your solicitor can help you take further legal action. This could include applying for contempt of court proceedings, which could also result in serious penalties for the respondent.

5. How Long Does the Order Last?

Typically, a non mol order lasts between 6 to 12 months, although this can vary depending on the individual case. In some circumstances, you may apply to extend the order before it expires, especially if the risk of harm still exists.

During this period, it’s important to keep a record of any incidents, breaches, or ongoing concerns. Your solicitor can advise you on the best way to do this and support you if further legal steps are needed.

Support Beyond the Order

A molestation order offers vital protection, but it is often just one part of a longer journey toward safety and stability. Once the order is in place, many clients begin to think about what comes next, such as ending a relationship, securing long-term housing, or arranging safe contact for children.

At Berkson Family Law Solicitors, we support you beyond the initial crisis. Whether you need advice on divorce, child arrangements, or additional support through social services, our family law solicitors are here to help every step of the way.

We understand that every situation is unique. You won’t be judged, rushed, or pressured, just supported with sensitivity, experience, and legal clarity.

Take the First Step Toward Protection

If you already have a non mol order, or if you’re considering applying for one but feel unsure about the process, please know that help is available. Understanding your rights and the legal protections you’re entitled to is the first step in reclaiming your safety and independence.

At Berkson Family Law Solicitors, we offer free initial consultations to answer your questions and explain your options. Whether you need help serving an order, dealing with a breach, or planning what comes next, our experienced family law solicitors are here to support you with compassion and professionalism.

If you’re in need of guidance or protection, get in contact with us today. We’re ready to listen, support, and help you move forward with confidence.