For anyone experiencing domestic abuse, the idea of navigating the legal system can feel overwhelming. Many people delay seeking help because they assume the process is too complicated, too expensive, or simply not meant for them. But the truth is, domestic abuse law is here to protect you, and with the right support, you don’t have to go through it alone.

At Berkson Family Law Solicitors, we specialise in domestic abuse law and have supported hundreds of individuals from their very first phone call through to court protection orders and long-term solutions such as divorce or child arrangements. This guide walks you through each step of the journey, from the moment you reach out to us, to the legal protections and support we can help you access.

1. The First Call: Reaching Out for Help

The first step is often the hardest. When you call our team, you’ll speak to a friendly and experienced family law solicitor who understands the fear, confusion, and distress that can come with abuse. You won’t be rushed or judged, our first priority is making you feel heard, safe, and supported.

During this initial consultation (which we offer free of charge), we’ll ask a few simple questions to understand your situation, such as:

• What type of abuse are you experiencing (emotional, physical, coercive, financial)?

• Do you live with the person who is harming you?

• Are there children involved?

• Have there been any recent incidents?

This allows us to assess whether you need immediate legal protection and whether you may be eligible for legal aid within domestic abuse law.

2. Legal Aid: Removing Financial Barriers

Cost should never be a reason not to seek protection. Under domestic abuse law, many victims qualify for legal aid, which can cover the cost of legal representation and court fees.

We’ll guide you through the legal aid process, helping you gather the documents you need, such as:

• Proof of benefits (e.g., Universal Credit, ESA)

• Three months of bank statements

• Proof of ID

Importantly, special rules apply in domestic abuse law cases. Even if you own property or have savings, you may still qualify due to the nature of the case. Our solicitors will handle the legal aid application quickly and sensitively, so you can get the help you need without delay.

3. Preparing Your Statement: Telling Your Story

To apply for a domestic abuse order, such as a non-molestation order or occupation order , you will need to provide a written statement of truth. This document tells the court what has been happening, why you feel unsafe, and what protection you need.

We know how hard it can be to talk about your experiences. That’s why we work closely with you to write this statement in your words, at your pace. We help you include important dates, examples of abuse, and the impact it’s had on you and your children. If you have evidence (texts, photos, call logs, or witness statements), we can include that too.

4. Making the Application and Court Proceedings

Once your statement and documents are ready, we file your application with the family court. In emergency cases, we can request a without notice order, which means the person you are seeking protection from will not be notified until the order is granted and served. This can often happen within 24 to 48 hours.

If a court hearing is required, we’ll represent you throughout the process. You won’t be alone, we’ll attend court with you, explain each step, and ensure your voice is heard.

Common protective orders under domestic abuse law include:

• Molestation Orders: Preventing contact, harassment, or threats

• Occupation Orders: Determining who can live in the family home

Once granted, these orders are legally binding, and breaching them is a criminal offence.

5. Aftercare and Ongoing Legal Support

The journey doesn’t end with a court order. Many clients come to us for further support once they feel safer. Our team can assist you with:

• Divorce or civil partnership dissolution

• Child arrangements (deciding where children live and how they see the other parent)

• Financial separation or division of assets

• Updating protection orders or extending them if needed

Because we understand the emotional complexity of these cases, we take a holistic approach. Whether you need legal advice, reassurance, or a long-term safety plan, we are here to support you for as long as you need.

6. Working With Family Law Solicitors Who Understand

What sets us apart at Berkson Family Law Solicitors is our compassion and experience. We are not just legal professionals, we are people who care. Our domestic abuse law solicitors are trained in trauma-informed support and domestic abuse advocacy, which means you’ll be treated with dignity and kindness at every stage.

We also work closely with domestic abuse charities, local support organisations, and social services to ensure you have access to housing, emotional support, and any other services you may need to rebuild your life.

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If you’re experiencing abuse and don’t know where to turn, remember: you are not alone, and there is help available. Whether you’re ready to take legal action or just want to understand your options, we are here for you.

At Berkson Family Law Solicitors, we offer free initial consultations, fast-track emergency applications, and full support through every stage of the legal process. From your very first call to long-term safety planning, we will stand with you.

For confidential, compassionate and expert guidance under domestic abuse law, contact us today. Let’s take the first step together toward a safer future.